Have a good old fashioned Christmas filled with family
By Dr. Anthony Policastro
In the past I have written about the importance of family mealtimes as a communication device. That is why I recommend eating out as a family where everyone is a captive audience to the conversation. I have also written about my familys traditional Christmas meals. They began at 3 p.m. with antipasto. They continued at 4 with lasagna, meatballs, salad and bread. That was followed by roast beef, potatoes and vegetables at 5:30. Dessert followed at 7. Fruit and nuts were served at 8. The result was most of the day spent at the dinner table. I would like to combine both of the above thoughts into a challenge for each family this Christmas. The challenge has two parts. The first part is to have everyone at the dinner table together for a good, long holiday meal. It does not need to take the 6 hours that my family used to take. However, it should extend beyond the usual 20 minutes for a good size meal. It also should involve all family members at the same time. The second part of the challenge is much more onerous. I would suggest that during the time of the extended meal no electronic devices be involved. There should be no television set playing in the background. There should be no texting or video game playing. This would be a special challenge for the children who have received new video games from Santa. As a matter of fact, the first rule should be that dinner is not started until all electronic devices are entirely shut off. This would avoid the receiving of phone calls, text messages and tweets during dinner. This would also take away the need to post pictures of dinner on Facebook. We sometimes forget that all of these things are relatively recent. There was a time when we communicated when needed. The telephone call could be returned when we got home. No one really needed to know what we were currently watching on television. We were unable to text and drive. There has always been a need for better family communication. The best time to do that is during meals. Christmas dinner should serve as an example of the right way to do things. There is probably no better Christmas present than spending time together as a family. Even in Dickens Christmas Carol, Tiny Tim and the rest of the Cratchits were happier about their Christmas dinner than Scrooge was. For that reason, I am laying down this challenge to all individuals who say that they will be spending Christmas with their family. See if you can actually do that with all the electronics out of the way. Make it a good old fashioned Christmas filled with family conversation.
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